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Assisted Living in Wilmington by the Numbers
Veteran-Approved Assisted Living in Wilmington
This Wilmington community provides daily personal care and works with Patriot Angels to help veteran families with the Aid & Attendance claim.
What Assisted Living Costs in Wilmington
No separate Wilmington figure is published, so the best benchmark is the Delaware median of $7,600 a month (CareScout 2025), $1,400 above the U.S. median of $6,200. Rates at each Wilmington community vary with the apartment and the care level in the service plan.
| Benchmark | Per month | Left after up to $3,845 |
|---|---|---|
| Delaware assisted living median | $7,600 | $3,755 |
| U.S. assisted living median | $6,200 | $2,355 |
| Delaware in-home care | $6,673 | $2,828 |
Find Out What a Wilmington Veteran or Surviving Spouse Could Receive
Assisted living is paid care, which is what Aid & Attendance is for. A Wilmington veteran or surviving spouse who needs help with daily activities may qualify for up to $3,845 a month.
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Wilmington Veterans and Their Families
About 2,673 veterans live in Wilmington, and 1,557 of them are 65 or older. Across New Castle County, there are 26,290 veterans, 13,233 of them 65 or older. Figures come from the Census Bureau’s American Community Survey (2020–2024).
Tips for Comparing Wilmington Communities
Staffing at night
Ask Wilmington communities how many caregivers are on duty overnight and how fast they answer a call button.
Medical appointments
Ask whether the community’s transportation covers doctor visits from Wilmington and how far it goes.
Check the state record
Look up any Wilmington community’s inspection history with DHCQ before you sign.
Assisted Living in Cities Near Wilmington
Other Delaware assisted living pages within driving distance of Wilmington.
Veteran Families We’ve Helped
Families in Wilmington and across the country rate Patriot Angels 4.9 on Google (465 reviews). BBB A+ accredited. See all reviews
Wilmington Assisted Living Questions
Can a Wilmington veteran use Aid & Attendance for assisted living?
Yes. A qualifying wartime veteran or surviving spouse in Wilmington who needs help with daily activities can receive up to $3,845 a month toward the community’s bill.
What does assisted living cost in Wilmington?
No Wilmington-only figure is published. The Delaware median is $7,600 a month (CareScout 2025).
How many assisted living partners are in Wilmington?
Just one, in Wilmington, plus 7 across Delaware.
Does a Wilmington community have to accept VA benefits?
No. Aid & Attendance is paid to the veteran or surviving spouse, so it can go toward the bill at any private Wilmington community.




