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Durham in 4 Numbers
Patriot Angels Assisted Living Partners in Durham
All 2 communities below are a Patriot Angels partner in Durham, ready to work with veterans and surviving spouses on VA benefits.
Paying for Assisted Living in Durham
No separate Durham figure is published, so the best benchmark is the North Carolina median of $6,496 a month (CareScout 2025), $296 above the U.S. median of $6,200. Rates at each Durham community vary with the apartment and the care level in the service plan.
| Benchmark | Per month | Left after up to $3,845 |
|---|---|---|
| North Carolina assisted living median | $6,496 | $2,651 |
| U.S. assisted living median | $6,200 | $2,355 |
| North Carolina in-home care | $5,720 | $1,875 |
Find Out What a Durham Veteran or Surviving Spouse Could Receive
Assisted living is paid care, which is what Aid & Attendance is for. A Durham veteran or surviving spouse who needs help with daily activities may qualify for up to $3,845 a month.
Prefer to talk it through? Call (844) 757-3047
Veterans in Durham
About 11,287 veterans live in Durham, and 4,419 of them are 65 or older. Across Durham County, there are 13,951 veterans, 5,531 of them 65 or older. Figures come from the Census Bureau’s American Community Survey (2020–2024).
Choosing Assisted Living in Durham
Dementia down the road
2 of the 2 Durham partners also run memory care, so a resident whose memory declines can often stay on the same campus.
Staffing at night
Ask Durham communities how many caregivers are on duty overnight and how fast they answer a call button.
Visiting distance
A Durham community near the family member who visits most often usually beats a slightly nicer one farther away.
Read the contract
Ask a Durham community for its residency agreement early, including notice periods and what triggers a move-out.
Assisted Living in Cities Near Durham
Other North Carolina assisted living pages within driving distance of Durham.
Veteran Families We’ve Helped
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Durham Assisted Living Questions
Can a Durham veteran use Aid & Attendance for assisted living?
Yes. A qualifying wartime veteran or surviving spouse in Durham who needs help with daily activities can receive up to $3,845 a month toward the community’s bill.
What does assisted living cost in Durham?
No Durham-only figure is published. The North Carolina median is $6,496 a month (CareScout 2025).
How many assisted living partners are in Durham?
2 in Durham, plus 166 across North Carolina.
Which Durham communities also offer memory care?
2 of our 2 Durham partners do. Look for the Memory Care tag on each card.
Does a Durham community have to accept VA benefits?
No. Aid & Attendance is paid to the veteran or surviving spouse, so it can go toward the bill at any private Durham community.
More Care Options in Durham
Independent living in Durham
For Durham veterans who don’t need daily care yet.
Memory care in Durham
Secure dementia care in Durham, offered by 2 of our partners here.
In-home care in Durham
Help at home in Durham; the state median is $5,720 a month.
Related Patriot Angels guides
GuideCan a Veteran Qualify for Aid & Attendance After Moving Into Assisted Living?Coming soon
GuideVA Benefits for Widows: Assisted Living & Home CareRead guide →
GuideDo Assisted-Living Fees Count as Medical Expenses for VA Aid & Attendance?Coming soonLooking beyond Durham? See Assisted Living in North Carolina or the national guide.