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Reviewed by Victoria Collier, VA-Accredited Attorney Patriot Angels has helped 188 families in Delaware access the VA benefits they've earned.
Delaware Independent Living by the Numbers
2 vetted Delaware partners at a glance for veteran families.
What Independent Living Costs in Delaware
Independent living in Delaware averages $5,391 a month, according to NIC MAP data published by Where You Live Matters. Rent varies with apartment size, number of occupants, and the services included. For a Delaware veteran who also needs help with daily activities, Aid & Attendance of up to $3,845 a month would equal about 71% of that figure, though the benefit pays toward care, not rent alone.
If needs grow, here is what higher levels of care cost in Delaware. These are statewide medians from the CareScout (Genworth) 2025 Cost of Care Survey.
| Type of care in Delaware | Median per month | Share covered by up to $3,845 |
|---|---|---|
| Assisted living | $7,600 | 51% |
| In-home care (non-medical) | $6,673 | 58% |
| Nursing home, semi-private room | $14,494 | 27% |
Serving Delaware’s 59,557 Veterans and Their Surviving Spouses
Delaware is home to 59,557 veterans, and 32,265 of them are 65 or older, according to the Census Bureau’s American Community Survey (2020–2024). Across the whole state, 229,028 residents are 65 or older, 21.8% of the civilian population (Census Bureau 2024 estimates). Among our partner cities, Newark has about 912, Hockessin has about 591 veterans.
Veteran-Approved Independent Living in Delaware
Patriot Angels has vetted 2 independent living partners across 2 Delaware cities, with Hockessin leading the list. Between them, they offer assisted living and memory care, so a move can grow with changing needs. If daily help is part of the picture, VA Aid & Attendance can pay up to $3,845 a month, and our team helps Delaware families file it right the first time. Check eligibility free or call (844) 757-3047.
Could Aid & Attendance Help Cover Care in Delaware?
Aid & Attendance pays toward care, not rent alone. A Delaware veteran or surviving spouse who needs help with daily activities may qualify for up to $3,845 a month toward that care. If income looks too high on paper, read what to do when income seems too high before ruling the benefit out. Our Aid & Attendance application tips cover what VA looks for in a care claim.
Prefer to talk it through? Call (844) 757-3047
Delaware Cities With Patriot Angels Partners
2 Delaware cities have vetted partners; Hockessin leads with 1.
Veteran Families We’ve Helped
Families in Delaware and across the country rate Patriot Angels 4.9 on Google. BBB A+ accredited. See all reviews
Questions Delaware Families Ask
How many independent living communities does Patriot Angels list in Delaware?
We list 2 independent living partner communities in 2 Delaware cities. Hockessin has the most, with 1.
Do any Delaware partners also offer assisted living or memory care?
Yes. Between them, they also offer assisted living and memory care. A resident may be able to add care later without a full move.
Can a Delaware veteran use VA benefits toward independent living?
Not for rent alone. If a Delaware veteran or surviving spouse also needs help with daily activities and pays for that care, Aid & Attendance may add up to $3,845 a month. Call (844) 757-3047 or use the form above to check.
More Care Options in Delaware
Assisted Living in Delaware
Daily help with bathing, dressing, and medications in Delaware.
Memory Care in Delaware
Secure neighborhoods and dementia-trained staff near Delaware.
In-Home Care in Delaware
Caregivers who come to the house in Delaware, for families not ready to move.
Related Patriot Angels guides
New to independent living in Delaware? Start with our complete guide to independent living.
