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Assisted Living in Delaware

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Quick answer

Assisted living in Delaware runs a median $7,600 a month (CareScout 2025). For a veteran or surviving spouse who qualifies, up to $3,845 a month in Aid & Attendance would pay roughly 51% of that. Patriot Angels works with 7 partner communities in 4 cities statewide.

  • 5 Delaware partners also offer memory care.
  • Most listings: Dover, Hockessin, Milford.
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01 · Delaware at a glance

Delaware Assisted Living: The Key Numbers

The Delaware partner network spans 4 cities, led by Dover and Hockessin.

7assisted living partners in Delaware
4Delaware cities with a partner
5also offer memory care
$7,600Delaware median per month
02 · Delaware costs

How Much Assisted Living Costs in Delaware

The Delaware median for assisted living is $7,600 a month ($91,200 a year), according to the CareScout (Genworth) 2025 Cost of Care Survey. That is 23% above the national median of $6,200. At the maximum benefit of up to $3,845 a month, a qualifying Delaware family would have roughly $3,755 a month left to pay from income or savings.

SettingDelaware median per monthU.S. median per monthCovered by up to $3,845
Assisted living$7,600$6,20051%
In-home care (non-medical)$6,673$6,67358%
Nursing home, semi-private room$14,494$9,58127%
Nursing home, private room$15,132$10,79825%

Statewide medians for Delaware from the CareScout (Genworth) Cost of Care Survey 2025. Prices at individual communities depend on apartment size and care level.

Related Patriot Angels guides

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Could Aid & Attendance Cover Most of a Delaware Assisted Living Bill?

At the Delaware median of $7,600 a month, up to $3,845 in Aid & Attendance would pay about 51% of the cost for a qualifying veteran or surviving spouse. Tell us about your Delaware veteran and we will help you see what is possible.

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VA Benefits to Support Your Next Chapter

Finding the right senior care is a big step. If you or your loved one is a Veteran or surviving spouse, VA Aid & Attendance benefits may help with the cost.

Patriot Angels can help you understand your options—with personal guidance every step of the way.

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03 · Delaware veterans

59,557 Delaware Veterans and Their Families

59,557veterans live in Delaware
32,265are 65 or older (54%)
7.4%of Delaware adults are veterans

Delaware is home to 59,557 veterans, 32,265 of them 65 or older, according to the Census Bureau’s American Community Survey (2020–2024). In Delaware, as everywhere, wartime service counts, not combat, so a veteran who served stateside during Vietnam may still qualify.

04 · Communities

Patriot Angels Assisted Living Partners in Delaware

Patriot Angels works with 7 Delaware assisted living partners. These cities have the most:

CityPartner communitiesAlso offer memory care
Dover33
Hockessin21
Milford11
Wilmington10

Operators with the most Delaware partner locations: Brookdale (2), Discovery Senior Living (2), Inspirit Senior Living (2).

Featured Delaware Partners

DoverBrookdale Dover150 Saulsbury Road, Dover, DE 19904(302) 674-4407DoverAssisted LivingMemory CareView community →
DoverDover Place - Inspirit1203 Walker Road, Dover, DE 19904(302) 735-8800DoverAssisted LivingMemory CareView community →
HockessinBrookdale Hockessin6677 Lancaster Pike, Hockessin, DE 19707(302) 239-3200HockessinAssisted LivingView community →
HockessinThe Summit5850 Limestone Rd, Hockessin, DE 19707(302) 235-8734HockessinAssisted LivingMemory CareIndependent LivingView community →
MilfordMilford Place500 South Dupont Boulevard, Milford, DE 19963(302) 422-8700MilfordAssisted LivingMemory CareView community →
WilmingtonForwood Estates1912 Marsh Road, Wilmington, DE 19810(302) 529-1600WilmingtonAssisted LivingView community →
Is your Delaware veteran already in assisted living?Many families file after move-in. See if your veteran qualifies, at no cost.
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05 · Delaware licensing

How Delaware Licenses Assisted Living

Delaware Division of Health Care Quality, Office of Health Facilities Licensing and Certification (DHCQ) licenses assisted living facilities in Delaware. License categories in Delaware:

  • Assisted Living Facility
  • Alzheimer's/dementia special care units

What it means for your family: Delaware facilities that offer a dementia special care unit must meet additional staffing and training rules. 5 of our 7 Delaware partners also offer memory care, so a resident whose needs grow may not need to move again.

Before you sign with a Delaware community, check its record in the DHCQ licensing page.

06 · Paying in Delaware

Delaware Programs That Help Pay for Assisted Living

Diamond State Health Plan Plus (DSHP-Plus) LTSS

DSHP-Plus LTSS can cover assisted living services for eligible members.

Aid & Attendance in Delaware

The benefit is paid to the Delaware veteran or surviving spouse, not the community, so it can go toward any assisted living bill. It is not federally taxable.

The family home

Selling or renting a Delaware home can fund several years of care. Time the sale with the VA claim in mind.

Long-term care insurance

Older policies often pay a daily amount for assisted living in Delaware. Check the elimination period before move-in.

07 · Cities

Find Assisted Living in Your Delaware City

5 Delaware cities have an assisted living page. Counts show partner communities.

Neighboring states: Maryland, Pennsylvania, New Jersey.

08 · Families we’ve helped

Veteran Families We’ve Helped

Families in Delaware and across the country rate Patriot Angels 4.9 on Google (465 reviews). BBB A+ accredited. See all reviews

09 · Questions

Delaware Assisted Living Questions, Answered

How much is assisted living in Delaware?

The Delaware statewide median is $7,600 a month, or $91,200 a year (CareScout 2025). Each community sets prices by apartment and level of care.

Can Aid & Attendance pay for assisted living in Delaware?

Yes. A qualifying wartime veteran or surviving spouse can receive up to $3,845 a month and use it toward a Delaware assisted living bill, about 51% of the state median.

Who licenses assisted living in Delaware?

Delaware Division of Health Care Quality, Office of Health Facilities Licensing and Certification.

Does Delaware Medicaid cover assisted living?

Diamond State Health Plan Plus (DSHP-Plus) LTSS: DSHP-Plus LTSS can cover assisted living services for eligible members.

How many Patriot Angels partners are in Delaware?

7 assisted living partners in 4 cities, and 5 of them also offer memory care.

10 · Basics

New to Assisted Living? Start Here

For services, care levels and tour questions that apply in Delaware and every other state, see the national guide.

The national guide, beyond Delaware →