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Reviewed by Victoria Collier, VA-Accredited Attorney Patriot Angels has helped 19 families in Tulsa access the VA benefits they've earned.
Tulsa Memory Care at a Glance
Patriot Angels Memory Care Partners in Tulsa
This Tulsa community offers a secure memory care setting and works with Patriot Angels on the Aid & Attendance claim.
Other Options for Veterans Near Tulsa
Compare a few more partner communities a short drive from Tulsa.
What Memory Care Costs in Tulsa
Memory care in Oklahoma costs about $7,150 a month (based on 2025 move-in prices); no Tulsa-only figure is published. Get each Tulsa community’s rate sheet in writing; VA asks for it with the claim. VA also checks income and assets; our guide to VA’s income and net worth limits shows how memory care costs lower countable income.
| Benchmark | Per month | Left after up to $3,845 |
|---|---|---|
| Oklahoma memory care | $7,150 | $3,305 |
| U.S. memory care | $6,690 | $2,845 |
| Oklahoma assisted living | $6,150 | $2,305 |
Find Out What a Tulsa Veteran Could Receive Toward Memory Care
Memory care is paid care, which is what Aid & Attendance is for. A Tulsa veteran or surviving spouse living with dementia may qualify for up to $3,845 a month. Veterans rated 100% service-connected may also qualify; see how 100% service-connected veterans can qualify.
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Tulsa Veterans Who May Need Memory Care
Tulsa is home to about 18,335 veterans, 9,177 of them 65 or older. Across Tulsa County the count is 33,899, with 16,400 age 65 or older (American Community Survey 2020–2024).
What Tulsa Families Should Ask
Assisted living on the same campus
This Tulsa partner also runs assisted living, which can keep a couple on one campus.
Secure but not confining
Ask how a Tulsa community keeps residents safe without locking them in their rooms, and look for an enclosed garden or walking path.
Night-time
Sundowning makes evenings hard. Ask Tulsa staff how many caregivers are on the memory care floor overnight.
Visiting
A Tulsa community close to the family member who visits most usually matters more than a nicer one farther away.
Memory Care in Cities Near Tulsa
Widen the memory care search beyond Tulsa with these nearby Oklahoma cities.
Veteran Families We’ve Helped
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Tulsa Memory Care Questions
Can a Tulsa veteran use Aid & Attendance for memory care?
Yes. A qualifying wartime veteran or surviving spouse in Tulsa who needs supervision because of dementia can receive up to $3,845 a month toward the bill.
What does memory care cost in Tulsa?
About $7,150 a month is typical across Oklahoma. Ask each Tulsa community for its rate sheet.
How many memory care partners are in Tulsa?
Just one, in Tulsa, plus 10 across Oklahoma.
Can we apply after a move to memory care in Tulsa?
Yes. Many Tulsa families file after move-in, and the monthly cost can help show financial need.
Other Care Options in Tulsa Besides Memory Care
Assisted living in Tulsa
Personal care and meals in Tulsa, for needs that stop short of dementia care.
Independent living in Tulsa
Senior apartments in Tulsa for a spouse or veteran who doesn’t need daily care.
In-home care in Tulsa
Help at home in Tulsa for a veteran who wants to stay put a while longer.
Related Patriot Angels guides
Looking for memory care beyond Tulsa? See Memory Care in Oklahoma or the national guide.
